Rest is Okay

Off days are a reality of any practice.

Sometimes it’s necessary to walk away for a day. Rest up. Give the practice a soft reset to realign focus, figuring how to start up again. It could prevent taking a longer breaks that aren’t planned, or at least give something else a bit of attention.

I feel guilty about not training.

But it’s okay, because I’m still working on some aspect of my capoeira. It’s an aspect of my practice I didn’t realized need so much work, but applying attention to the business is the only way to draw more students to my classes. Empty class speaks to my business, and having no students doesn’t let me work on my teaching.

This is something I never considered coming up in capoeira.

Learning how to run a business is not the same as training, working on music, working on physique, and keeping a game strong. It’s different set of skills that if not being practiced, aren’t growing. I learned this only recently in the two years I’ve been an instructor. Mind you, this is only one part of being an instructor.

Capoeira force­s balance-- there is always something to work on.

Keeping Things Together

The Rutgers Capoeira Club warming up. 

Politics annoys everyone.

It happens whenever people organize, in different clubs or groups or affiliations. It’s a necessary evil that contains a lot of discussion that can easily turn into disputes, which align with arguments if not handled properly. It’s a pain, but its how people get things down.

Convincing colleagues to follow your lead it a tough gig. Everybody has their own ideas, plans of execution, and can be stubborn. As one of the latter, I know it alms my frustrations, and as a leaders, is the best thing to do for those wanting to contribute.

It’s also one of the better problems to have-- having many people to organize and agree on things means that your organization is growing. Growth is how all business survive, and the lack of it shows which ones die. So if you aren’t dealing with those politics, you’re growing to the point when you do.

I remember being a part of the Rutgers Capoeira Club leadership, arguing over what we should do, how we do it, and how to convey the information to our mestre. You can’t figure bonds that develop doing those meetings, and loathe them while you’re in it. Arguments can leave each member discouraged when they got back to the dorm at night.

I can’t help but miss the opportunities to have meetings like that.

Keep It Together

Keeping it together is understated.

Life is known for throwing random occurrences, obstacles, and overall doubt with the pathway to greatness. The journey almost requires it, and when a destination is reached, you can look back and marvel at how you got there the luxury of hindsight. As you travel, you have to deal with the muck.

The muck is everyday responsibilities, along with the procrastination that curses those roles, along with the people who depend on you. Those people love you, and you love them, but they get in the way. Life goes on without them, but life is harder with them gone (so you keep them.) This is another dangerous bend on the path to the top, keeping the people who go with you in check, carrying them for as long as they need you to.

Sometimes, it’s just being patience as you recruit people to come with you.

It takes a village to do anything, and building it is a painful task. It’s possible, and been done millions of times, but that doesn’t make it any easier. Great things come with struggle, but even knowing that doesn’t make the struggle easier.

It does keep the path in sight.